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There are two answers to this, the first more straightforward answer is “there are things I enjoy in porn visually that I don’t actually have any desire to repeat in real life”, but for the things I’d like to try, what that makes this area of my life more complicated than it need be is our old friend “White Supremacy”. Planning for my trip, along with buying my Euros, travel insurance and making sure my passport was in date, I got thinking about something that has come up for me multiple times in regards to my sex life, “why have I never explored fetish further?”. For a long time, I’ve had a fascination with the leather gear aesthetic, along with bondage, sub/dom play and a handful of other bits and pieces. I’d be lying if I said fetish was an area I had no interest in, I think most gay men have at the very least a healthy curiosity (the prevalence of BDSM and leather focused gay pornography online should be evidence enough of that). My friend has been, for as long as I’ve known him, a member of the leather fetish community and as such he’s promised to show me around that side of the city. It’s also where they host Folsom Europe, Europe’s largest fetish event, which means it comes as no surprise many consider Berlin to be the region’s fetish capital. He lives in Berlin near Schöneberg, which is a gay district in the city. In December, I’m going on holiday to visit my buddy Stefan for a week.